How to Stop Acting Like an Employee in Your Own Business (And Finally Step Into A CEO Mindset)
- Vanessa Ann Miller
- Jul 7
- 5 min read
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You didn’t start your business to feel more trapped than you did in your 9-to-5. You started it for freedom, fulfillment, and the kind of legacy your kids will be proud of. So why does it still feel like you're running on fumes—checking tasks off like an overachieving intern rather than leading like the powerhouse CEO you are?
If your business has started to feel more like a chaotic job than an intentional company, this post is your turning point.
We’re unpacking how to shift from an employee mindset to the identity of a strategic, impactful, and calm CEO. Because the success you crave? It’s not found in longer to-do lists. It’s found in how you lead.
Spot the Signs: Are You Stuck in Employee Mode?
Before we can create change, we have to recognize what’s not working.
Here are a few red flags that you're operating from employee energy:
- You spend most of your day doing low-leverage tasks: checking email, managing inbox clutter, tweaking graphics…again.
- You feel guilty asking for help or outsourcing because “it’s just easier if I do it myself.”
- Your schedule is chaotic. You’re reacting to client needs, algorithm shifts, or launch ideas, not moving with a plan.
- You’re exhausted and spinning your wheels. No matter how hard you work, your revenue doesn’t feel consistent.
- You can’t unplug without feeling like your business will fall apart.
Sound familiar? These are the symptoms of a hustle-based business strategy, not a sustainable business strategy.
Know I say this in the most loving way when I say: you’re not broken but your system and rhythm are.
The Difference Between Employee Mindset vs. CEO Mindset
Let’s define the core difference between these two roles:
The Employee Mindset:
- Asks, “What do I need to get done today?”
- Focuses on task completion
- Waits for direction or operates from default
- Prioritizes being busy over being strategic
- Feels guilty for resting
The CEO Mindset:
- Asks, “What are my priorities this quarter—and what drives the most impact?”
- Delegates to team members or systems
- Protects time for strategic thinking and revenue planning
- Prioritizes growth, clarity, and systems over perfection
- Honors rest as a revenue-generating activity
One leads to burnout. The other leads to scalability, peace, and profitability.
What It Really Means to Run Your Business Like a CEO
Running your business like a CEO means you stop doing everything and start doing what only you can do.
This means:
1. Audit your current schedule and responsibilities
Grab your planner or calendar. Review the last two weeks of work. Highlight the tasks that:
- Only you can do (content creation, client delivery, sales calls)
- Can be outsourced (invoicing, customer support, scheduling)
- Can be systemized (onboarding, content batching, FAQs)
This is your first step to freeing up energy for actual business strategy.
2. Embody the CEO Identity
Your business will only grow as much as your identity does. If you’re still identifying as “the doer,” you’ll stay in doer mode. However, CEOs are decision-makers, vision holders, and leaders.
Ask yourself:
- What decisions am I avoiding right now?
- Where am I tolerating chaos instead of building structure?
- What would the next-level version of me not do anymore?
Real growth begins when you stop trying to do more and start being more strategic.
3. Build and Commit to Your One Focus Strategy
Instead of trying to master every platform, create five offers, or speak to three different audiences, choose ONE:
- One ideal client
- One core offer
- One marketing platform
- One consistent rhythm
This One Focus Strategy is the foundation of Your 6-Figure Year, my signature 6-week mini-mind that helps female entrepreneurs build predictable, sustainable income without hustle or burnout.
When you get laser-focused, momentum compounds, and so does cash flow.
Want to know how you’re energetically running your business? Take my free assessment.
CEO Mindset Tips for Mom Entrepreneurs
This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about reworking the plate.
Here are proven CEO mindset and productivity tips that work:
Set CEO Power Hours
Block at least 90 minutes each week just for strategic planning. Use this time to review revenue goals, sales funnels, and marketing efforts, not just to tick off to-do list items.
Delegate at the First Sign of Dread
If you’re procrastinating on a task for more than seven days, delegate it. Your resistance is information. Use it.
Stop Mistaking Activity for Progress
Just because you’re working all day doesn’t mean you’re building something sustainable. Audit what actually drives income and do more of that.
Create a Balanced Workweek™
One of the tools I teach inside Your 6-Figure Year is how to structure your week based on revenue priorities and energetic alignment:
- CEO Day: for planning, metrics, and decision-making
- Goddess Day: for creativity, grounding, and nervous system regulation
- Doer Day: for execution and income-generating tasks
This rhythm helps my clients create consistent revenue without working 24/7.
How to Shift Out of Employee Energy Today
If you're ready to stop acting like an employee and start leading your business, here are immediate action steps you can take:
Conduct a Weekly Time Audit
Use a simple spreadsheet or time-tracking app to log what you’re doing each hour. Categorize each task by: CEO-level, admin, delivery, or procrastination. Then evaluate: where can you create a system or get support?
Create a 30-Day Revenue Plan
This is a core part of what we build inside Your 6-Figure Year. Map out:
- What you’re selling
- When you’re selling it
- How you’re selling it
Consistency comes from rhythm, not from reactive launches.
Rewire Your Beliefs
A CEO doesn’t just work differently. She thinks differently.
- “I trust my strategy.”
- “I can delegate and still deliver excellence.”
- “My worth is not tied to how busy I am.”
These beliefs change your behavior and your bank account.
The Truth About Entrepreneur Burnout
Burnout isn’t a badge of honor.
It’s a sign that your business is running you, not with you.
If you’re constantly stuck in launch mode, reinventing the wheel, or fearing time off, you don’t need a better planner; you need a better business structure.
You don’t need another marketing trend; you need a strategy you’ll actually follow.
That’s exactly what Your 6-Figure Year was created for: high-capacity women ready to build a business that runs, even when they take a day off.
You’re Not Just Building a Business—You’re Building a Life
You were never meant to be your own assistant, graphic designer, admin, coach, and strategist.
You are the CEO. The visionary. The one holding the long-term vision and leading others into it.
So take off the employee badge. Put on the crown. And build a business that supports the life you actually want.
Because when you run your business like a CEO, everything changes:
- Your income becomes more predictable
- Your energy becomes more sustainable
- Your time becomes more enjoyable
It’s time to stop surviving and start scaling with simplicity, sustainability, and sanity.
Want My Exact CEO Framework?
If you're ready to stop acting like an employee and start creating consistent, aligned income, join me inside Your 6-Figure Year.
You’ll walk away with:
- A fully customized Balanced Workweek™
- A rinse-and-repeat 30-day revenue plan
- A simple system to eliminate what’s draining your time and energy
Learn more here → https://www.vanessaannmiller.com/your6figureyear
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